The definitive, eccentric journal of an unlikely caregiver, continued.
Apologia for these journals:
They are not about taking care of a relative with moderate to severe Alzheimer's/senile dementia.
For an explanation of what these journals are about, click the link above.
For internet sources that are about caring for relatives with moderate to severe
Alzheimer's/senile dementia, click through the Honorable Alzheimer's Blogs in my
links section to the right.
7 minute Audio Introduction to The Mom & Me Journals [a bit dated, at the moment]
Sunday, July 27, 2008
I read the article I mention in the immediately previous post...
...Pax Americana Geriatrica yesterday morning at breakfast. My choice of reading times was mildly unfortunate. My mother and I often read at breakfast. Our breakfast reading is social. One of us usually reads the morning newspaper while the other reads one (or more) of a surprising variety of magazines (from my mother's infamous gossip rags to National Geographic to food magazines, most recently Bon Appetit, to which we landed a free subscription, and always the latest Penzey's Spice Catalog to Harper's, etc.; whatever we happen to have in our house at any given breakfast) scattered across the table top. We look for bits and pieces to share and discuss with one another. This Miller-McCune article provided little fodder, which frustrated my mother because I insisted on reading it through silently without breaks. I found a couple of interesting nuggets that I shared with her, though, so Breakfast Reading wasn't an entire loss, yesterday:
- The first was a factoid stating that in 1935, when Social Security in the U.S. was implemented, the age of implementation, 65, was two years beyond the age of life expectancy, which, at that time, was 63. "Isn't that interesting," I said to my mother, "Social Security was designed to provide economic security only for those lucky few who managed to lived beyond life expectancy...it wasn't designed to help the general elderly...only the special elderly." The article also mentions that life expectancy, today, is 78. "According to the way it was meant to be administered," I continued, "Social Security 'shouldn't' kick in until one is 80." Mom remembered that when Social Security was implemented her mother and father enthusiastically participated as business owners/self-employed. She told me that they contributed "as much as they were allowed" every year until they retired. They retired, when they sold Latchstring Inn, in 1969; my grandmother was 75; my grandfather was 85.
- The second was mention that "youth bulges" in any particular population usually spawn political radicalism and violence, particularly when such "bulges" are not easily absorbed into the economic circumstances of a country. The article speculates, based on research, that the Middle East and North African youth bulges, as they age, will follow the usual pattern: They will become "a source of political stability and economic development." My mother made the obvious comparison to "my" generation, the 1960's and 70's and how "we" "settled down" in the 1980's. I was, frankly, surprised, and pleased, that she made this connection, even though the character of the economic stability "we" created in the 1980's is largely what is undoing our society, now.
Despite the article's refusal to consider the sociological ramifications and possibilities of an aging population, the mere existence of the article raises some intriguing questions. Here are just a few:
- What about elder activism, which seems to be proving itself somewhat more effective than youthful activism, albeit in less advertised ways?
- What about the possibility that the older we, as individuals become, the more likely we are to prefer peaceful activism to to violent activism and that, beyond middle age, aging does not imply conservatism?
- What about the possibility that other countries, perhaps because they are aging faster than the U.S., are discovering and will continue to discover ways to incorporate elders into society that will transform their societies into more livable environments that the U.S.?
- What about the unique life perspective that aging confers, a perspective with which I am just beginning to become personally familiar? As more people come into this perspective, how will its burgeoning primacy affect the way Global Power Brokers broke power?
- What about the danger of being The World's Top Power Dog by virtue of economic and military supremacy in a world which is much too populated to put up with political grandstanding and competition, anymore?
- And, you know, what about my mom and the influence her Ancient Self has on me, through our relationship? If it happens that relationships such as my mother's and mine become valued and supported by our societies (assuming that they not only will, but they must), what effect will this have on the assumptions of this article?
From my perspective, we continue to be a thinking species that hasn't yet figured out how to accurately and felicitously think ahead. When our futures arrive, they continue to surprise us. This hasn't changed. I think global aging has just begun to surprise us with its implications. I fear that these surprises will be largely disruptive but I hope they are, finally, largely good. In the meantime, it might be wise for us to consider protecting our elders much better than we currently are because, in doing so, we might also protect ourselves.
A half hour to Mom's reveille.
Later.
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